A study released by Child Trends this month reveals that condom use is strikingly different among teenage boys and girls. While 47% of sexually active boys reported that they always use a condom, just 28% of girls said the same. Where's the disconnect? I think the numbers tell us that boys and girls are using different methods of birth control.
Girls are more likely to use the Pill once they're in a committed relationship and abandon condoms. Boys on the other hand, who might be having sex with more partners, are more apt to use condoms. But whatever the reason, I think the study highlights an important area of risk for our girls: The Pill is not enough when a girl decides to become sexually active, even if she's in a committed relationship.
The Pill assumes that both partners are being sexually monogamous. Unfortunately, more than one young person has had their heart broken by an unfaithful lover and the Pill can leave your health hanging in the balance. The Pill doesn't protect against any sexually transmitted diseases -- especially HPV, the most prevalent infection that's spreading like wildfire among the young and sexually active and can, in some cases, lead to cervical cancer.
Mothers who are talking to their daughters (and sons) about safer sex should communicate why the Pill is simply not enough. Teens especially should double-up with a condom, in addition to the Pill, so all bases are covered. I think there's a case to be made for adult women and condom use -- even in long-term monogamous relationships -- since, ultimately, you never really know what you're exposing yourself to. All women need to take responsibility for their sexual health, young and old alike.
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